How to Make a Married Man Commit to You

I recently read an interesting article that caught my immediately and I thought to myself, what is the benefit of dating a married a man, let alone trying to get him to commit to you.

The common sense in me is dying to come out and here I am.

How is someone who is already in a committed relationship will be able to commit to someone else? He cannot have two commitments as one will fall apart eventually. One is bound by law, and the other is bound by emotions.

I do have to ask is why would someone do something like this and be with someone who is already taken? Do they not have enough confidence in themselves that they are able to attract someone who is perfect for them, meets what they are looking for and is single?

The common words that I hear from friends of mine who took a change in dating a married man, who says that they will leave their spouses for the person that they are having an affair with. That rarely ever happens, and if they do, then they are bound to pretty much cheat on you with someone else. In many ways I would say it is Karma!

If there are children involved then that is even worse and those children will be hurt from the affair. I believe that the best thing to do if you are having an affair with a married man is to:

1. End the relationship.
The relationship is not going to progress into anything great. Putting your life on hold while available honest men pass you by, that would be able to provide all that you are needing.

So it is best to cut your losses now. It will save your heart from further damage. Consider the people that you are hurting in the process, such as his wife, his children (if any), and for you if you have any children. They are the innocent bystanders of this traumatic experience.

2. Find out how you feel about yourself and what made you choose this person?
This is important as the question is what is it about this person attracted you to them. Do you really love yourself? Finding out who you are and learning about yourself is key in order for you to grow.

3. Seek counseling to help you cope with this loss, and learn more in how to prevent this from happening again. Gain a better understanding what and how love should be. Love should not include lies, but of honesty.

I see these extra-maritial affairs as a slippery slope all the way downhill and to never to be able to climb back up again. If a person is in this type of affair, remember the man is controlling everything and basically you are giving up your life over to them. When you will meet, when you will do things together, cancelling your plans just to meet with them when they have time. It is not worth it. Get your self-esteem back and learn to stand on your own.

Britney Spears requested back on CBS hit show "How I Met Your Mother"

Britney Spears is to appear again on the CBS Show "How I Met Your Mother" playing the bubbly happy character Abby in the May 12 episode.
"We're all so thrilled to have Britney joining us once again," series
executive producer and co-creator Craig Thomas said in a statement. (Associated Press)

Since Britney has participated in the show previous, she has been receiving rave reviews.

I must say that this is good for Britney and hopefully she will continue in doing great things as this and keep her butt out of trouble.

Mariah Carey is messing up!

I am really disappointed with Mariah Carey as she cancelled a taping with "The View" and this would have been great PR to promote her new CD E=mc2. Her marriage to Nick Cannon has seemed to overshadow her career at this time.

I do hope that she gets it together so that we can see more of her.

As for her marriage I really give it 6 months or so to last.

Sex in the City to be Death in the City?

I swear people are really trying to leak out information about this movie which is due to open to all movie theaters on May 30th.

The plot has been hinting that Carrie (Sarah Jessica Parker) is suppose to finally be married to Mr. Big (Chris Noth).

There have been rumors that Mr. Big might be killed off in the movie, dying from a heart attack however director Michael Patrick King had this to say about the rumor, "Kill Mr. Big? I would have been chased around the planet by women with torches....I did want an emotional roller-coaster," King said. "But my ultimate
target was to make our 'girlfriends' — in other words, our audience —
happy. And I don't think Mr. Big dying would make them happy."

There has been another rumor that was noted from the New York magazine suggested that Charlotte may be killed off in a freak tennis accident. Michael Patrick King had this final word to say, "It's a summer movie," he said. "Why would I want to kill anyone?"

So with that I believe that this will be one of the top movies to be give the summer movie blockbuster a sizzling, naughty start.





Main source: Yahoo News

Celebrity Obsession

Now I must admit that I really do enjoy celebrities as much as the next person. I guess their lives are quite interesting and watching them cope with having absolutely no privacy at all is like watching a spectator sport and seeing who survives.

With this blog I know that I will be sharing plenty of my thoughts about celebrities and those that are in the public eye or have done something absolutely horrendously wrong and received press about it.

So this blog is about using one's common sense which seems to be heavily lacking with those that are admired the most. I know that I will be having a great time pointing this out and being the voice that says everything that everyone is thinking about but was too afraid to talk to about it.

My topics at most times may be controversial and please keep in mind that I am entitled to my opinion.

What the hell!! Mariah Carey MARRIED!!!!

I just found out that my dearest and one of my favorite singers has gotten married to none other than Nick Cannon!!

Now mind you I do like Nick Cannon to an extend but not for marrying and such. I just do not think he is marriage material at all. PLUS! He was previous engaged to some chick last year. Seriously between him and Usher, they seem to like to get engaged and such but they are not marriage material.

Plus HE gave Mariah the same ring that he tried to give his ex when he proposed to her. Sheesh talk about hand me downs.

I just think that Mariah Carey can do better than silly Nick Cannon! Well I give it eeh 2-3 months that it will last. I would be really surprised if it lasted longer than that.

Paula Abdul--What's wrong with you?

Honestly Paula! What is up with you? I really do think that something is wrong with her these days with all of this looking drunk type of things going on. The mess up that she made on American Idol has proved to me that she really needs help. I am thinking that she is on medications that make her loopy. She needs to get a new doctor that prescribes her with medications that do not make her this way as it is making her appear as a fool in the public.